My Tampa Dating-Qualities in the right woman

Sometimes, knowing what you’re looking for in a woman can be quite difficult. And if you’re one of them, don’t get discouraged. It truly isn’t as difficult as you may think to find the right woman for you. The very first thing you must do is resign to be very open-minded. You need to cast aside all the standards that you may have been using and start from scratch. Forget what all your buddies say is attractive. Never mind what you see in the lingerie commercials on television. You’ll want to start with the very basics of what makes two people compatible, not two lovers, but two people in general, in order to find what kind of person works for you. In order to find out what you are really looking for in a woman, you need to take the time to consider the complete person, not just the body. You need to take into consideration things like personality, interests, ambition and then looks. You’re probably wondering why I listed those traits in the order I did. If you consider looks first it will tend to cloud your judgment on all the other traits. Men tend to be very easily visually stimulated. For this reason, what excites them at first sight tends to be what they think they want. However, if you consider what you want in the other areas, the looks may not be so important. You may find that a woman with a great personality that likes football and racing as much as you do and who takes her career as a human resources director seriously, but who happens to be a brunette with only an average build, would suit you just fine. Personality, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor and interests play a much bigger role in attraction than just physical appearance.www.mytampadating.com You can follow us on twitter @TampaDating

Tampa Speed Dating

So what is Speed Dating? Hi I am Mariah I am the Memebr service manager and match maker at My Tampa Dating Speed Dating is a series of 7-10 mini dates lasting fro 6-8 minutes depending on the size of the event. at My Tampa Dating we host the event at private venues giving you plenty of room to spread out. The ladies each sit at a table first. Then the guys. The dating starts and you have 6-8 minutes to find out what you need to know about your date to see if this is someone you would like to get to know better, Your deal breakers( btw if you don't know what deal breakers are subscribe to our channel as we discuss them in another video). After the 6 minutes are up, The host or hostess of the event will chime in and ask the guys to move to the next table. You will have a score card making it easy for you to keep track of who you would like to see again...or not. This process continues until you have met everyone. At the end of the evening you turn in your cards. The next day our staff will go through the cards looking for mutual matches. We will then call you the next day with the names and numbers of singles that have both expressed interest, If for some reason, no one appealed to you the next speed dating event is Free! We are attempting to break the Guiness world record for largest speed dating event in July. All proceeds going to charity. It's going to be fun, so get in touch. Don't forget to Please like this video and subscribe to our channel as we have great weekly dating tips and ideas.

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Every time I talk to a guy who tells me his dating experience, I discover he's making the exact same mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women. Dating can be an absolute nightmare for some people. Whether you have been dating for years, getting back in the game, or just starting out, you could always use a bit of dating advice.

1) Pay attention to her and listen.

Most guys try to impress sexy women by talking all through. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she will begin to wonder why you're not slobbering all over her. She'll want to discover more about you herself... now you're a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one.

2) Ask questions.

Come up with a list before you leave the house, i.e., How did you get into that line of work? Where did you go to school? Have you seen the new Tom Cruise movie? And so on. If a woman tells you about her weekend at the yoga center, and you know absolutely nothing about yoga, just ask her what she likes about it, how she got into it, etc.

3) Compliment the other person.

Show sincere appreciation, so find something you like and mention it. You may be freaked out by the idea of complimenting a woman on her soulful eyes, so mention her watch, dress, hairstyle, or even her shoes. No need to go overboard: "Nice shoes," will do it.

4) Be yourself.

Exaggerating or boasting your credentials, successes, etc will only make the woman lose interest. Make the other party feel at home so that she does not feel pressured to impress or lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Nobody feels more comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere.

5) Give your date the royal treatment.

Buy her some flowers, buy her dinner and make her feel special. Show her that you value her company. Women loved to be showered with attention and pampered by her man. For the subsequent date, Cook up a meal at home and spend the evening watching movies or some other activity such as a board game. The meal most likely will be better than at a restaurant.

Enjoy dating while you can and live life to the fullest. You'll attract women who are looking for someone special for a change.For dating tips,dating advice, date coaching, check us out www.mytampadating.com.

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Tampa Dating-Speed Dating

At My Tampa Dating we host a lot of speed dating events. I am often asked what questions to ask while you are on these mini dates. I found a great article from Rakhi Abraham who gives 45 examples of questions. I took some of my favorite. I hope you enjoy his writing and come see us at our next singles event.

Speed dating is the hot new alternative on the dating scene, compared to barhopping and online dating. In the present world of speed and frenzy, speed dating is the instant dating solution for today’s youngsters. Unlike normal dating, you have got five to 10 minutes to meet and create chemistry.

Because of this limited time, the way you dress and the questions you ask are really important. One thing you really don’t have is the luxury of time. If you are tongue-tied, you are out of the picture. No one wants to date some one who does not talk, is boring or nervous.

TIP: For speed dating questions we recommend the book
'Tell Me Honey...2000 questions for Couples' , it's available in paperback from Amazon for $12 and as an instant download ebook too.

So speed dating experts advise that short of having a paper full of questions, you must be ready with a list of interesting, impressive and enjoyable questions that will keep the conversation thriving in those five-ten minutes.

Some of the questions ranging from serious to silly, that are used in speed dating are as follows:

1) What do you do for work? - It is an introductory question. It may reveal the professional status of a person but little about his personality. So move on to another question.

2) Where are you from? - This reveals background. It throws better light on the person.

3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? More insight into personality.

4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last? A probing question that will open up the communication.

5) What are you looking for in a relationship? You can both instantly compare whether you match in this area.

6) What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married? This is important, as it will reveal if both are moving in the same direction - towards or away from marriage.

8) What do you look for in a husband/wife? Try to elicit an honest answer.

9) Do you want/do you have any children? An important question if you are looking for a long-term relationship and your partner is not.

10) What do you do for fun? - This will throw light on whether your leisure activities match. Are you a bookworm and she an outdoorsy person?

11) What are you most proud about? This reveals the basic values of the person - whether he/she values money or adventure/ intellectual pursuits.

12) Is religion important to you? 24x7 living together means understanding on certain basic issues like religious beliefs.

13) Do you follow politics? Are you a Democrat or a Republican? You can spar on your political affiliations.

14) Do you believe in love at first sight? You can decide whether he/she is a romantic person or not.

15) What is your most treasured possession and why? What a person is sentimental about reveals a great deal about his personality. Is it his bike or a locket presented by a sister?

16) What is your favorite month of the year and why? Does he like to sweat it out in summer activities or curl up like a cat in winter?

17) Which is your favorite book/movie? Both of you can discuss why you like a book or a movie - throws further in sight into personality.

18) Which is the last book you read? A conversation starter.

19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to do? Throws light on likes and dislikes.

20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer/band? Do you share musical tastes?

21) Do you like animals/keep pets? Are you going to clash on this issue - one an animal hater, the other a pet lover?

22) How do you spend your spare time? This is important, as it will really help if both love to do the same things in spare time.

23) Where do you see yourself in five years time? Watch out if he has no definite goals for the future and is in a rut. A positive mark for her if she has her life and career planned out positively.

24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be? Silly, amusing question to get the laughs.

25) Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full? Are you an optimist or a pessimist?
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Tampa Dating-Singles Events.

Yes, That is me. making a fool in front of my children as I enter a contest put on by the Tampa Bay Lightning. At MyTampaDating.com we really support the Tampa Bay Lightning and host many singles events before the game. Our Singles events are organized, always age appropriate and a great way to meet singles in a casual setting. The hockey singles events are really fun because then we get to enjoy a game and share some company with like minded singles

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