Showing posts with label Tampa Dating Site. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tampa Dating Site. Show all posts
Monday, July 2, 2012
The Wrong Way to Get Over a Painful Broken Heart
The Wrong Way to Get Over a Painful Broken Heart
The worst emotional feeling is a broken heart caused from a divorce, cheating spouse or even a loved one dying. It's natural to cover it up any way we can. Getting involved with someone too fast is the wrong way to get over a painful broken heart.
It can cause a life-long mistake because of irrational thinking. It hurts to think of someone you loved so much has left you to dwell in your pain. Many people look for comfort in the bars only to make things worse the next morning and then they start all over again.
They lose their job, home, family and pride. It takes time to mend a broken heart, but jumping into an affair or fling isn't the answer. There are people who meet someone on the rebound and end up getting married, and then later they regret what they have done.
Some go through dating sites and start a relationship that wasn't meant to be. They are vulnerable and some people lose their life savings and assets from an online dating scam artist. The scam artist tells them what they want to hear and he helps heal their broken heart and rips them off.
Some people go through a few divorces due to a broken heart. They're looking for their true love that dumped them, but they must think he is cloned. They need to go to singles events where they can meet people and have fun without the serious relationship.
Once their heart starts to mend, they'll be able to think rationally. Once enough time has passed, they'll be ready to think about a new love. When that time comes they need to attend a speed dating event or go to a good dating service that will help them with their profile.
A background check and screening will weed out the criminals and drug users. They will know the type of person they're looking for which will be someone entirely different from the one that broke their heart. Just a few minutes on their first date will tell them if they like this person. They can pursue more dates and learn to know who this person is, but they must take their time.
Members have jumped the gun too many times when looking for a new love. Love doesn't grow on trees, but there is one special person for everybody out there. It just takes time to meet that someone special. Just wanting to be with someone to stop the loneliness is the wrong way to get over a painful broken heart.
If you are a Tampa single looking for a relationship, tired of the dating games, tired of online dating and/or tired of blind dates, let's talk. My Tampa Dating is a dating site designed to incorporate personalized service with match making, singles events, speed dating, background checks and a staff that really cares about its members.
We have no sales reps and part-time match makers. We have no telemarketers and part-time employees who constantly turn over. Our personalized approach allows us to get to know each member personally. Go to: www.myTampaDating.com
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Sunday, July 1, 2012
Dating Etiquette
Saturday, June 30, 2012
How to Start Dating in Your 50's
How to Start Dating in Your 50's
By Arlie DuBois
It's tough to start dating in your 50's when you've been with the same person for so many years. The process gets easier once you find the first date. You may have gone through a messy divorce or you lost your spouse.
Whatever the reason, you are lonely and want to get on with your life. Look for a dating service that offers help in setting up your profile. You want to be matched with someone that's compatible. The best dating company will run a background check and screen the applicant. They care about their clients and want to help as much as possible to find them the right person.
Maybe you are looking for someone in their fifties and he has lost his wife or gone through a divorce too. You want him to have interests that you have and show kindness and respect. You're at the age where you don't want to make the big mistake of getting matched with the wrong person.
Do your research and find the dating service that caters to your age group. Some people in this age group have a tough time trusting others as they have probably had bad experiences with someone in the past. You need someone you can trust that is understanding to your needs with a great personality.
When you've been matched from the dating service, and you are ready for your first date, be sure to write down questions you want to ask him. Find out what he likes to do, and if you have pets, ask him about his pets.
There will be things you both have in common, it's just asking the questions. When you meet him for the first time, you will know in a matter of minutes if you like him and he will know too. Keep your financial status to yourself, because if you have money you won't know if he likes you or the money.
Don't tell him about your personal affairs such as how much your house is worth, or how many kids and grandkids you have. Save all that for another time. If he seems over-bearing and rude, make an excuse to leave.
If after you meet him and you just don't like him, find a way to cut the meeting short. There is true romance for you out there; you just need to know where to look. There is someone for everybody and you're no different. There's never a good reason why a person has to be alone at any age. Now is the time to learn how to start dating in your 50's and you will find the true one.
If you are a Tampa single looking for a relationship, tired of the dating games, tired of online dating and/or tired of blind dates, let's talk. My Tampa Dating is a dating site designed to incorporate personalized service with match making, singles events, speed dating, background checks and a staff that really cares about its members.
When you fill out the form you will talk to our professional match maker and she will be with you through the whole process. We have no sales reps and part-time match makers. We have no telemarketers and part-time employees who constantly turn over. Our personalized approach allows us to get to know each member personally. Go to: www.myTampaDating.com
Thursday, June 28, 2012
My Tampa Dating-Speed Dating
Speed Dating is for you if you are the type of single who would like more than one date, and then have the choice of who you would like to meet again. Date up to twenty enthusiastic singles in one evening of whirlwind dating.
Originating in the USA it’s gathering momentum, and has got the attention of Canadian and UK singles as well. You will find regular Speed Dating events in most major cities up and down these countries, and most singles usually go back for more. As with all dating nothing has a one hundred percent strike rate but you have the night out, and the enjoyment factor. Where else can you meet twenty excited, eligible singles that are looking for a night of fun that can turn into romance.
Generally at an event tables are set out for the dates then everyone will sit down for their first date. After the dates have finished the gentlemen will usually move around the tables while the women stay seated. Singles are given cards at the start of the event to mark off the singles they would like to see again. After the event they will go home and login to the events organisers web site the next day to see who they have matched with. If the single has more than one match they then have to decide who they have a stronger desire for. This is the point where the event organisers leave it in the singles hands, and no longer participate in the relationship.
Speed Dating isn’t for the shy type. It’s an evening of pure socializing, and quick thinkers will definitely be in their element. With only a few minutes to get to know someone, being able to think on your feet is a definite advantage. Knowing a little bit about most things will help as well so getting stuck for questions and answers doesn’t become an issue. Keeping up with current events can help also for quick conversation pieces.
Women knowing something about their national sport will help in a sticky situation. Some men will definitely find this attractive. And the same goes for the men, knowing something a bit feminine will help them, and score some points for instant attraction.
If you enjoy meeting people, and enjoy plenty of fun conversation, a Speed Dating event is going to hit the right buttons. An evening of fun fuelled dating and a few drinks is what your singles social life could be just what the doctor ordered.
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
My Tampa Dating Communicating With Women
We all know that this world is full of women, but
all are different. It is said that it is very
hard to understand women that's why here are some
true statements about how they communicate that
you can learn from and see how it applies to your
girlfriend, wife or other woman you know.
Women don’t need to have a particular reason to
talk; they like to talk because it creates
connection.
So they always want to have near them someone who
wants to listen and talk with them. Also, women
use talking as a way to release tension. There
are a lot of conflicts inside a couple about
communication because, for women, talking
something out over and over again eventually
dissipates the stuck energy around it.
They hate being told to get over it, that you don'
t have time to listen. If rambling conversation
drives you crazy or you don’t have a lot of time
let her know what time you do have and give her
the attention. You should listen to her without
trying to find a point or solution.
Women express their thinking and feeling process
out loud. Hearing themselves talk helps women get
clear on what is going on inside of them. The
process of expressing their thoughts out loud
actually allows them to figure out what they’re
thinking and feeling. So you should be a good
listener and show that you are interested in what
she thinks and feel. They don't like the men
which enjoy having a specific purpose for the
conversation.
Women communicate with details. They love details;
that’s why a woman’s interest in the details
about your life is not an attempt to interrogate
you or invade your privacy and their habit of
sharing the details of their life is not an
attempt to take up too much of your time. Rather,
they are trying to connect. If you want to
surprise her try to make some remarks using some
details for example the way she is dressed, the
color of her eyes...
Women minimize how upset they are. In order to
keep the peace, women often don’t express how
upset they really are. They don’t stand up for
themselves, and they downplay the severity of
their dissatisfaction.
When they said that are alright but still look
upset, they are still upset. If you take the time
to try to get a woman to say what she really
feels, that attempt alone will actually make her
feel better because she knows you cared enough to
try.
They don't like the men which, in order to avoid
a confrontation take her answer literally and
leave it when she says that is fine but still
look upset. They love to insist and find out what
she really think and try to make her feel better.
Show her that you care and it is important to you
her happiness.
In general, they like to have a lot of friends (I
mean girlfriends) with whom to share all their
thoughts, dreams and secrets which a man would
never understand. Most of them don't feel secure
to have an open talk with their partner and to be
completely honest like she is with her friends.
So women are well aware that most of the time
they are a profound mystery to men.
Monday, June 25, 2012
My Tampa Dating Relationships Tips
Integrating two lives in any environment is at best a challenge. Integrating two lives that are in separate turmoil, on separate paths, and with separate ideas about life does not a magically make a happy existence. Relationships are constant work.
However, dating is the lightest level of being in a relationship and should be taken as such. You are not yet making mortgage payments with your date partner or raising children together so have fun and enjoy the whole experience.
Dating is the part of life that allows you free access to discovering the types of personalities that appeal to you in the opposite sex. Every date you engage in will not be a spectacular experience but if you learn something new or verify something you’ve touched on in the past from each date then it can’t be considered a total loss. You have to consider that dating opens your mind to new and exciting activities and it also prepares you for serious relationships.
Gone are the days whereby you are considered, as a woman, loose or promiscuous if you date a few men at once or many men overall in your dating career. And gone are the days where men feel pressured to take the first step toward initiating contact, plan the date, and pay for everything. The world of dating has encountered a silent solid revolution and as the perfect revolution goes no one was killed but improvements were established.
If you are a young participant in the dating world you may not even realize “we’ve come a long way baby” but as the new years will assuredly bring forth new and improved dating tips, secrets, and general etiquette the younger generations will see their own revolution occur.
As for the more mature participants (and this can include individuals well into their seventies) in the dating scene you have seen many changes. Maybe some of the changes have brought slight turmoil to the table of dating. But so many more of the changes must make you feel good to be alive, adventurous and vibrant. That is why communication with your date is imperative. Odds are you are dating a person close to your age. It is likely they recognize and feel as awkward with the changes as you.
Communication is important in all relationships. Dating is no exception. Honesty and integrity are important also. You don’t have to lay your whole life on the line to date, you simply have to set aside some quality time to indulge in meeting new people, experiencing new and old pastimes, and be a person that gravitates toward the happiness we as humans so often neglect.
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
My Tampa Dating- Dating Tips
Sure you're nice - most people are. So what?
This quality is one that reflects your feeling
that you're a man worth knowing and you deserve
women's attention. But do you really believe
that women pay attention to what you think you
deserve?
Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, you're nice,
but you also need to be interesting.
Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to wimp/dweeb
in too many people's minds.
Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk to
attract women!
As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks or
aggressive men. They are attracted by challenging,
interesting guys. That's all. You can be
interesting, challenging and still a nice man. Be
yourself but keep in mind these significant
things that can make the difference between a
regular nice guy and a successful one:
1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the
quickest and easiest way I've ever heard to let a
woman know that YOU are the guy she should be
pursuing is to let women know you are successful
with women. Be a nice guy, but one that is
desirable. :)
2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman and
spark her attraction for you is giving her a
COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal if
done wrong... but just find something at her what
you really think is special, different about her.
You give attention, and you will get attention in
return!
3. Not being aggressive doesn't mean that you
have to wait for madam perfection to drop into
your lap (which you as a "nice guy" deserve by
definition, of course). You have to take some
initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really
cocky) and show some honest interest in something
about a woman.
4. The best selling genre of books in the world
is romance novels... because women LOVE romance.
So don't talk about sport for God seek! If you
are not the type of man that reads poetry or is
able to talk about moon or about the smell of
burned tree leafs, don't do it. You'll look
unnatural. But taking your date in a romantic
place, offering her a nice flower, enjoying some
good music or even touching her hand in a
delicate way is very romantic.
5. And don't talk only about you. You want her to
listen to you? Then first listen carefully to her
when she needs to be heard. The most effective
way to be interesting is asking questions and…
listens. Only try and you'll see. :)
Keep in mind that often (not always, but very
often) when a woman tells you about a problem she'
s having, she's not looking to you for the
solution. What? That doesn't make sense? What
she's often looking for is comfort and
reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE THERE.
6. One of the most important things in dating is
to approach women that are interested in dating
and women that seem to be interested in you. Don'
t try to sell candies to someone that is looking
for peanuts and don't waste your time with women
that are still affected by their ex long term
relationships. You don't want to be just a
shoulder to cry?
You only live once, so live your life well!
www.mytampadating.com
Monday, June 18, 2012
My Tampa Dating - Dating Tips
Being a good flirt has as much to do with not doing the wrong things as it does with doing the right things. Flirting is difficult because there's such a fine line between being successful and crashing and burning. It's so easy to do everything right, but then ruin all of your progress by making one of the all too common mistakes below.
1) Don't be crude
If you make obvious and nasty sexual innuendoes, you aren't being a turn on, you're being a pervert...unless you're a girl (then it's ok).
2) Don't ignore body language
Over 65% of communication is non-verbal. If you aren't actively looking at the way their body is shifting or what the person's eyes are saying, you're going to miss a lot of obvious signs that say "I'm into you, keep talking."...or..."You're a freak, and I don't want you around a second longer."
3) Avoid being overtly slick
It's fine to act cool, but don't go overboard. You won't seem like yourself...and that's not attractive.
4) Don't be silly
Flirting should make your target feel sexy and wanted, not entertained. You want to be perceived in a sexual way...not as the funny guy or girl.
5) Don't be excessively cute
If you act too cute (unsexy), you'll be seen as an innocent and nice person. That's great if you want to be just a friend, but not for anything more.
6) Cut your losses if it's obvious your actions aren't appreciated
If your flirtations are clearly visible and you aren't being flirted with back, it's time to pack it up and move on.
7) Don't show fear
Insecurity is perceived as a terribly unattractive sign of weakness. If you want to get your target to take you seriously, you've got to hide your nerves. This means no...stammering, fidgeting, wandering eyes (off into the distance), wavering voice, etc.
8) Avoid being overly touchy feely...unless you're a girl
This is specifically aimed at the guys. It's not appropriate to grope or touch a woman unless you know she likes you. If you aren't sure that she's into you, it's ok to lightly touch her shoulder or graze her arm...but that's it! Do not put your arm around her waist or constantly touch her shoulder or body. This will freak her out and make her feel terribly uncomfortable around you.
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Friday, June 15, 2012
My Tampa Dating- Dating With Confidence
Dating can be a nerve-wracking experience for many people. After all, you could be meeting your future spouse. It can also be a very vulnerable experience. The whole point of dating (usually) is to get to know someone else on an intimate level, or at least beginning this process. For whatever reason, and there are many, most people want to make a good first impression. At the very least, most people want to avoid rejection. Dating is a prime opportunity for this by its very nature. Whether you're looking for a fun night out or a long term development, rejection can occur either way, and it can be difficult to deal with. Self-doubt can come in many forms, from questioning one's intelligence to one's looks to one's ability to tell a good joke. Dating puts it all out there.
How can you increase your confidence when it comes to dating? There are a few things you can do, and certain methods are more appropriate for some people than others.
First Things First
A date is just a date. It is not the rest of your life. Yes, you may meet your future spouse, but this is far beyond the scope of the date. At this point, no matter how desperate you may be feeling to finally settle down, focus only on the date. Putting more pressure on it makes it harder for both of you. The other person is likely to sense your "desperation" (for lack of a better word), and you end up putting way to much pressure on yourself. Instead, try focusing on the date itself, not where it may or may not lead. Enjoy the time together, or, if you don't, try to avoid blaming yourself and going into the litany of self-talk that tries to convince you that you're not worth dating, you'll never find someone, and that you'll be single for the rest of your life.
Be Yourself
Yes, you've heard it many times before, and there's a reason for it. If you do hit it off with the other person, it's best if this happens when you're being true to yourself. If you're "faking" it, you're then faced with coming forward and facing humiliation, rejection, or both, or continuing the facade. This takes a lot of effort, it's dishonest, and you can't keep it up for very long anyway. So whatever your faults, try not to hide them too much. This doesn't mean that you put them all out on the table on the first date, but it also means that you don't go to extreme measures trying to hide them or pretending to be something or someone you're not.
Get Out of Yourself
To help deal with your insecurities about yourself, try focusing on the other person. Show a genuine interest in what he or she has to say. Be honest and courteous in your responses. Let the other person have the spotlight. Not only does this help keep you from focusing on your insecurities, it also helps accomplish what dates are meant to do--get to know someone else better. Ask questions, listen to the answers, and ask more. Talk about common interests when you find them. Above all, try to avoid talking about yourself the whole time or worrying too much about how you look, what you're saying, and what type of impression you're making.
Try Something Different
If the idea of sitting through a quiet dinner with someone you barely know makes you break out into a sweat, consider dating activities that involve a bit more involvement. Take a tour through a garden, go rollerblading, or do some other activity that keeps you moving. If you have something to do, you can focus less on feeling awkward and more on the conversation. It helps keep the atmosphere lighter as well, which can make you both feel more comfortable and confident.www.mytampadating.com
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Monday, June 11, 2012
Sunday, June 10, 2012
My Tampa Dating- Online Daters Not Always Honest
Saturday, June 9, 2012
My Tampa Dating- Online Safety
Friday, June 8, 2012
My Tampa Dating-Dating Tips
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
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