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Monday, July 2, 2012
The Wrong Way to Get Over a Painful Broken Heart
The Wrong Way to Get Over a Painful Broken Heart
The worst emotional feeling is a broken heart caused from a divorce, cheating spouse or even a loved one dying. It's natural to cover it up any way we can. Getting involved with someone too fast is the wrong way to get over a painful broken heart.
It can cause a life-long mistake because of irrational thinking. It hurts to think of someone you loved so much has left you to dwell in your pain. Many people look for comfort in the bars only to make things worse the next morning and then they start all over again.
They lose their job, home, family and pride. It takes time to mend a broken heart, but jumping into an affair or fling isn't the answer. There are people who meet someone on the rebound and end up getting married, and then later they regret what they have done.
Some go through dating sites and start a relationship that wasn't meant to be. They are vulnerable and some people lose their life savings and assets from an online dating scam artist. The scam artist tells them what they want to hear and he helps heal their broken heart and rips them off.
Some people go through a few divorces due to a broken heart. They're looking for their true love that dumped them, but they must think he is cloned. They need to go to singles events where they can meet people and have fun without the serious relationship.
Once their heart starts to mend, they'll be able to think rationally. Once enough time has passed, they'll be ready to think about a new love. When that time comes they need to attend a speed dating event or go to a good dating service that will help them with their profile.
A background check and screening will weed out the criminals and drug users. They will know the type of person they're looking for which will be someone entirely different from the one that broke their heart. Just a few minutes on their first date will tell them if they like this person. They can pursue more dates and learn to know who this person is, but they must take their time.
Members have jumped the gun too many times when looking for a new love. Love doesn't grow on trees, but there is one special person for everybody out there. It just takes time to meet that someone special. Just wanting to be with someone to stop the loneliness is the wrong way to get over a painful broken heart.
If you are a Tampa single looking for a relationship, tired of the dating games, tired of online dating and/or tired of blind dates, let's talk. My Tampa Dating is a dating site designed to incorporate personalized service with match making, singles events, speed dating, background checks and a staff that really cares about its members.
We have no sales reps and part-time match makers. We have no telemarketers and part-time employees who constantly turn over. Our personalized approach allows us to get to know each member personally. Go to: www.myTampaDating.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Arlie_DuBois
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Dating Etiquette
Saturday, June 30, 2012
How to Start Dating in Your 50's
How to Start Dating in Your 50's
By Arlie DuBois
It's tough to start dating in your 50's when you've been with the same person for so many years. The process gets easier once you find the first date. You may have gone through a messy divorce or you lost your spouse.
Whatever the reason, you are lonely and want to get on with your life. Look for a dating service that offers help in setting up your profile. You want to be matched with someone that's compatible. The best dating company will run a background check and screen the applicant. They care about their clients and want to help as much as possible to find them the right person.
Maybe you are looking for someone in their fifties and he has lost his wife or gone through a divorce too. You want him to have interests that you have and show kindness and respect. You're at the age where you don't want to make the big mistake of getting matched with the wrong person.
Do your research and find the dating service that caters to your age group. Some people in this age group have a tough time trusting others as they have probably had bad experiences with someone in the past. You need someone you can trust that is understanding to your needs with a great personality.
When you've been matched from the dating service, and you are ready for your first date, be sure to write down questions you want to ask him. Find out what he likes to do, and if you have pets, ask him about his pets.
There will be things you both have in common, it's just asking the questions. When you meet him for the first time, you will know in a matter of minutes if you like him and he will know too. Keep your financial status to yourself, because if you have money you won't know if he likes you or the money.
Don't tell him about your personal affairs such as how much your house is worth, or how many kids and grandkids you have. Save all that for another time. If he seems over-bearing and rude, make an excuse to leave.
If after you meet him and you just don't like him, find a way to cut the meeting short. There is true romance for you out there; you just need to know where to look. There is someone for everybody and you're no different. There's never a good reason why a person has to be alone at any age. Now is the time to learn how to start dating in your 50's and you will find the true one.
If you are a Tampa single looking for a relationship, tired of the dating games, tired of online dating and/or tired of blind dates, let's talk. My Tampa Dating is a dating site designed to incorporate personalized service with match making, singles events, speed dating, background checks and a staff that really cares about its members.
When you fill out the form you will talk to our professional match maker and she will be with you through the whole process. We have no sales reps and part-time match makers. We have no telemarketers and part-time employees who constantly turn over. Our personalized approach allows us to get to know each member personally. Go to: www.myTampaDating.com
Friday, June 29, 2012
Thursday, June 28, 2012
My Tampa Dating-Speed Dating
Speed Dating is for you if you are the type of single who would like more than one date, and then have the choice of who you would like to meet again. Date up to twenty enthusiastic singles in one evening of whirlwind dating.
Originating in the USA it’s gathering momentum, and has got the attention of Canadian and UK singles as well. You will find regular Speed Dating events in most major cities up and down these countries, and most singles usually go back for more. As with all dating nothing has a one hundred percent strike rate but you have the night out, and the enjoyment factor. Where else can you meet twenty excited, eligible singles that are looking for a night of fun that can turn into romance.
Generally at an event tables are set out for the dates then everyone will sit down for their first date. After the dates have finished the gentlemen will usually move around the tables while the women stay seated. Singles are given cards at the start of the event to mark off the singles they would like to see again. After the event they will go home and login to the events organisers web site the next day to see who they have matched with. If the single has more than one match they then have to decide who they have a stronger desire for. This is the point where the event organisers leave it in the singles hands, and no longer participate in the relationship.
Speed Dating isn’t for the shy type. It’s an evening of pure socializing, and quick thinkers will definitely be in their element. With only a few minutes to get to know someone, being able to think on your feet is a definite advantage. Knowing a little bit about most things will help as well so getting stuck for questions and answers doesn’t become an issue. Keeping up with current events can help also for quick conversation pieces.
Women knowing something about their national sport will help in a sticky situation. Some men will definitely find this attractive. And the same goes for the men, knowing something a bit feminine will help them, and score some points for instant attraction.
If you enjoy meeting people, and enjoy plenty of fun conversation, a Speed Dating event is going to hit the right buttons. An evening of fun fuelled dating and a few drinks is what your singles social life could be just what the doctor ordered.
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
My Tampa Dating Communicating With Women
We all know that this world is full of women, but
all are different. It is said that it is very
hard to understand women that's why here are some
true statements about how they communicate that
you can learn from and see how it applies to your
girlfriend, wife or other woman you know.
Women don’t need to have a particular reason to
talk; they like to talk because it creates
connection.
So they always want to have near them someone who
wants to listen and talk with them. Also, women
use talking as a way to release tension. There
are a lot of conflicts inside a couple about
communication because, for women, talking
something out over and over again eventually
dissipates the stuck energy around it.
They hate being told to get over it, that you don'
t have time to listen. If rambling conversation
drives you crazy or you don’t have a lot of time
let her know what time you do have and give her
the attention. You should listen to her without
trying to find a point or solution.
Women express their thinking and feeling process
out loud. Hearing themselves talk helps women get
clear on what is going on inside of them. The
process of expressing their thoughts out loud
actually allows them to figure out what they’re
thinking and feeling. So you should be a good
listener and show that you are interested in what
she thinks and feel. They don't like the men
which enjoy having a specific purpose for the
conversation.
Women communicate with details. They love details;
that’s why a woman’s interest in the details
about your life is not an attempt to interrogate
you or invade your privacy and their habit of
sharing the details of their life is not an
attempt to take up too much of your time. Rather,
they are trying to connect. If you want to
surprise her try to make some remarks using some
details for example the way she is dressed, the
color of her eyes...
Women minimize how upset they are. In order to
keep the peace, women often don’t express how
upset they really are. They don’t stand up for
themselves, and they downplay the severity of
their dissatisfaction.
When they said that are alright but still look
upset, they are still upset. If you take the time
to try to get a woman to say what she really
feels, that attempt alone will actually make her
feel better because she knows you cared enough to
try.
They don't like the men which, in order to avoid
a confrontation take her answer literally and
leave it when she says that is fine but still
look upset. They love to insist and find out what
she really think and try to make her feel better.
Show her that you care and it is important to you
her happiness.
In general, they like to have a lot of friends (I
mean girlfriends) with whom to share all their
thoughts, dreams and secrets which a man would
never understand. Most of them don't feel secure
to have an open talk with their partner and to be
completely honest like she is with her friends.
So women are well aware that most of the time
they are a profound mystery to men.
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