she seemed interested,why won't she call back?
It’s been three days since the perfect date, If you can even wait that long:) and she hasn't called you back. What's the problem, You're confused. Your hurt, Frankly your shocked. When the date was over you day dreamed the whole way home of the possibilities and fun of your future dates.You have told all your friends about this perfect girl and your perfect date You've asked for their opinion and asked them all,"WHY HASN"T SHE CALLED ME BACK". Is she busy? Away? Involved? You've over-analyzed it to death and can’t stop checking your phone. Problem is the friends giving you all the advice and telling you not to stress, she will call, are married. You even start thinking that maybe it was the message you left. Was it a turn off? Did you sound goofy or to enthusiastic? The reason she didn't call is quite simple really
You didn't connect....let me say that again...You didn't connect
The reason she has not called back is that she simply does not feel the same way that you did about the date -- or about you. The explanation? Who knows, who cares? The real thing to focus on is that she didn't call back. In 2012 with Texting,Ipads,Twitter,Cell phones,facebook it's quite silly to think if she wanted to get in touch with you, she couldn't.There isn't going to be a mutual connection with every date. You misunderstood her having a
a nice time with a nice guy,with her wanting to see you again. Maybe she just got out of a relationship and the fun you were having reminded her of him. Maybe she was recently hurt,Maybe she wasn't having fun and just was being nice.
Point is.Don't dwell on it.Don't play it back in your head over and over. Put it in a balloon and let it go.If you want women to call you back, you need to focus on making an emotional connection with them. Men feel connected by sharing activities; women feel connected by sharing stories, words and emotions.
When you go on your next date, ask yourself, "What three things did I learn about her?" and "What did I share about myself with her?" The answers to those questions are what build a relationship.
Connect emotionally with women. One way is to pay attention to the details of what she tells you. Listen when she speaks. Remember the names of her friends, where she went to school, where she grew up.Her pet's names. Remember the conversations. Send her a text at the end of the evening letting her know how much you enjoyed her company. When you call and leave her a message,Personalize it. Refer to something from your date. Say something like. I hope your sister is feeling better and i would love to take you to that little bistro that you said you loved friday night. This will show her you were listening.
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